The Set Up: So, Here’s one for the books. I’m on a gig. Another Chick Singer who also works with the piano player is there checking me out, being “supportive”. The band and I are having fun, being open…. The other Chick Singer starts snapping her fingers really loud trying to increase the tempo of… Continue reading Diva Rules
Category: Advice
Getting Out Alive
In my mind everyone should take care of their own shit as soon as they are able developmentally, and as long as they can physically and mentally as they age. Sometimes we have to take care of someone else’s shit; like a small child or someone who is aging or sick. But basically everyone needs… Continue reading Getting Out Alive
Religion
She had been studying religion for her whole life really. Her dad was a confirmed agnostic although he used to joke to his friends that he was a pagan. Her great grandmother studied Christian Science. She used to go to church with her and then come home to her dad bad mouthing it. He encouraged… Continue reading Religion
A Player’s Lesson
Tess met Rob at the Labor Day party. They were both with someone else that day, but they managed to make eye contact and exchange numbers. Rob always had a string of young beauties dangling around, and Tess was hooking up with several partners as well. One of her suitors had a ten day trip… Continue reading A Player’s Lesson
Everyone Has Their Own Time
You tell them to wait because you want them to. “It’s better to wait,” you say. But it really isn’t better. The elders want you to wait, but did they? Probably not. Why do you think your mom is a hot thirty-two when you are sixteen? What time is best? Each person must decide what is… Continue reading Everyone Has Their Own Time